41 yr old, 5'2", Childfree Female from Black Hawk, United States
Occupation: Entrepreneur and Project Manager
Not open to long distance!
Looking For: Male
Smoking: No
Drinking: Once in a while
Pets: I can tolerate some pets
Education: High School
Tubes Tied / Vasectomy: No
Below is Karissa's handwritten answer to the, "Tell us a little bit about you", survey question.
Rooted in the Mountains — Seeking a Partner to Build a Life With. I’m looking for a man who already has a life in the Colorado mountains (Gilpin County, up to Nederland or down to Evergreen, etc.) . Someone who’s not just visiting nature but grounded in it. A man with a home of his own and a heart that’s open to building a shared life… porch coffee at sunrise, mountain drives with playlists and quiet laughter, volunteering locally, and exploring both the stillness of pine forests and the chaos of Denver once in a while. I’ve put down roots here - after 32 years away, I came back June 1st and I’m all in. This land is my soul’s home. I’m invested in community, in helping neighbors, in becoming part of something bigger than myself. I want a partner who feels the same pull: to wake up in the mountains and live on purpose, together. Who I Am I’m grounded, intuitive, growth-oriented, and a little nerdy, in the best way. ✨ Neurospicy (ADHD + Autism), Splenic Projector, ISTJ ✨ Tech entrepreneur for 20+ years ✨ Obsessed with purple, panoramic views, and personal evolution I’ve done deep healing work over the years. I value integrity, emotional safety, and shared laughter. I’m not here for performance or pretense. I’m here for depth, partnership, and something truly real. ? My Vision for Us ✨ We live in the mountains, love our home, and are proud of the life we’ve built ✨ Morning coffee on the porch before we each dive into our day ✨ Hiking, off-roading, or trying our hand at gardening on weekends ✨ Volunteering locally, being known and trusted by our neighbors ✨ Time apart with guy/girl friends and shared adventures with couple friends ✨ Cuddled up on the couch watching shows we’ve been meaning to catch up on ✨ Shared intimacy that’s emotionally connected and physically alive, not just convenient ? What I’m Attracted To ✨ Emotionally intelligent and steady, growth-minded and self-aware ✨ Entrepreneurial (not owned by your business) ✨ Actively aging well: proactive with testosterone, energy, and health ✨ Embodied masculinity - confident, calm, grounded, not performative ✨ Clean-cut or intentionally styled; strong arms are a plus ✨ Close to my height (5'5"–5'8") because hugs are easier ✨ Sexually confident: 2–3x/week even after NRE fades; open to tantra ✨ D&D, tabletop games, or a bit of a geek? Big bonus. ✨ DOM in the bedroom only after trust is earned ✨ Has HSV2 or open to the risk with clarity and care If you’ve got a house in the hills, guy friends you make time for, and the ability to hold both stillness and intensity - I’m listening. ? What Doesn’t Work ? Daily weed use ? Vagueness or emotional unavailability ? Men who still want kids or haven’t fully closed that chapter ? People who are passive in relationship (or in life) ? Politics, Personality, and Preferences I lean moderate-right: pro-life, values-driven, liberty-minded. I don’t need someone who matches me exactly but we must respect each other’s values. INTJ/ISTJ? Great. Into order, systems, clarity, and directness? Even better. Love bar darts, loose leaf tea, or tech nerdery? We’ll get along just fine. ? If You’re Still Reading… You want something real. You’re done with chaos. You value emotional maturity and love being in the mountains not just on weekends, but because it feeds your soul. You don’t need to be chased. You’re already here, grounded, intentional, and ready to walk beside someone who gets it. If that’s you… say hi. Let’s see if our paths were meant to cross... Tom?
Perhaps the most important question to CFdating's profile survey, below is Karissa's answer to why they choose to be childfree.
I can't stand most kids! The screaming and constant dependence... Went on a 5 hour ride around San Francisco in a Tesla with my sister and the lady that she nannied their son since a baby for 2 years. He's now 6. She also had young baby which was scared of me in the back seat and cried basically the whole time. Then the 6 year old was banging, tapping and talking non-stop. I was in sound overload! Gave me a headache that added to the motion sickness the EV gave me.
Finally, would Karissa have or want kids down the road? Below is how they answered this critical question.
No never, and don't want a partner that has them - even grown... That's why I'm on a site like this ... Seems like an odd question.
